This new bridge spans the river near where I live. It is a great addition, meaning new walks are possible, better access is provided for many people who live the other side of the river and wish to come into the city on foot. And those who want to enjoy the open park spaces that are just over the bridge.
 
Previously, it would have meant a much longer walk to the next bridge and then back up, or more probably the car would have been used.
 
It has become a new route for cyclists too – most being reasonable courteous to pedestrians.
 
Plus, people with their dogs. There are signs that request people to put their dogs on a lead, most do. Some don’t…ever the way with some who won’t have bothered to read the signs, those whose believe their dog is so well trained why would they need to be on a lead, plus those who are sadly rather more arrogant and disrespectful of others. Often with the inane comment: ‘It’s alright, they are just being friendly.’ It is not alright and I don’t like muddy paws on my clean trousers.
 
I am sure that once the spring and then the summer arrives this bridge will be well used and enjoyed by many. I have loved seeing small children on their little bicycles and scooters enjoying themselves, parents usually encouraging them and guiding them in how to use the space respectfully with others. As there’s no motor traffic it is so much safer and a great way for them to learn. Learn the valuable skill of balance and using their limbs, expending energy and getting stronger, fitter. So much better than the use of a powered version.
 
It is also so lovely to see children outside ,enjoying time with their parents, away from the electronic ‘real estate’ that so many large businesses have made their life line…creating digital addiction. As we know, the object is to monetise this addiction, in turn making it more ‘sticky’, so the attachment becomes stronger, the habit even more difficult to break.
 
On the day I was crossing the bridge it was almost empty of other people, so it was good to see the structure with little distraction. The sun making the new metal glisten; it looks clean and fresh. At night there is subtle lighting too which is useful, as I have found out.
 
Often when I cross bridges it makes me think of other things in life that we have to cross. It becomes a metaphor – from one side, in this case, of the river to the other side. Allowing a short cut to me made, better speed, a more direct route, leaving one place to go somewhere new. I am sure there are many ideas you can come up with, some that may help you work on something where a change may be needed.
 
Think how much slower it would be to cross the bridge, if it were not clear. Perhaps if there were a lot of children on their scooters or bicycle; maybe a few toddlers taking some new steps. More people. Dogs off the lead. Dogs on a lead but the owner has one of the extendable varieties and has allowed themselves and the dog (albeit on a lead) to block the whole bridge. Cyclists, or a group of cyclists, intent on pedalling rather than getting off and walking to inconvenience others less.
 
Suddenly a clear bridge and pathway becomes one with obstacles that slow or block progress.
 
In my work I have used the metaphor of a bridge with many clients and often come up with a dramatic change in the plan for their business, or life.
 
Some questions that you may find useful:
 
·      Where are you going from - where are you going to?
·      What are the possible obstacles which you will need to consider?
·      Is there a plan to deal with the obstacles?
·      How long will it take?
·      What is the expectation when you arrive on the other side?
 
I am sure you get the drift and can write your own questions that suit your needs.
 
Occasionally when out for a walk, or a drive, one did not realise there was a bridge and spontaneous change of plan to cross the bridge is taken. How often do we do that in life too?
 
And remember the saying which goes along the lines of: ‘If you want to travel fast, go alone. If you want to travel far, go with others.’
 
So, is this a solo journey, or one with others?
 
A few ideas to tease your mind. I meet many people who are looking for some change, perhaps using the example of a bridge may help. I do hope so.
 
My best wishes,
 
Peter